Shadow Self Vs True self

Bonjour Friends, While most think that 'Answers & Challenges' are found in the outside world, people on a spiritual/mindful path have learned that: Everything exist Within. When we come to realize that the world's triggers are only there to provide us with encounters to master 'The game" which can be sum up as having our divine self in control of its own shadow, we will stop blaming or acting up as our worst enemy and learn the true meaning of bliss. If life is battlefield, to win it: Stop fighting with your wounded self! With every punch, just make the conscious choice to Return to your True Self, to return to your Heart, to Return to your 'Love & Light Always.(Day after day, moment to moment to moment). Love & Light Always, Ilanit.

Treshold

Bonjour Friends, Our emotions will keep on giving all sorts of reasons to justify our 'unreasonable choices'. Reasons that 'our reason', meaning 'the voice of our True self' won't tolerate any longer eventually. Indeed, how many time can we play the same game, (even though we keep on finding ourselves back to the start) till we finally say: "Now, might be the time to cross the next door's threshold on my path!" I know it can be worrisome, scary even but... Remember: The Force that got us there is ever present with us, a fortiori on the other side. Love & Light Always, Ilanit.

Carry on

Bonjour Friends, Today, let me share with you a little funny story for the road to Bliss Town. (Read till the end because it does have a mindful message as always) This morning, as my daughter & I went to her school to meet her new teacher, with years of practice under my belt, I knew exactly what to do to be the totally prepared & zen waiting under the Floridian sun with loads of supplies. 1- I wore comfortable shoes & loose cloth 2 - (which was really the top#1), I packed everything in a carry on. Yes you heard me well! And you know what, not only was I feeling 'the coolest' (though not the only one, a few more families had the same idea), I actually was 'applauded' by many for the clever idea, which they might used too next time & which created a sweet sense of connection at that moment. And ,this is what it made me realize: In our Earthly travel, we all come/create luggage's,( they are the sum of past events from this life or previous ones that caused us pain and made us have beliefs and behaviors as a coping mechanism for it) Yet,.... if we were to recognize them for what they are: Experiences that we don't have to carry on our back or be crushed by, we could learn to walk proudly for the lessons they have taught us and the light they have allowed to reveal in our heart. Don't let your story defines you, walk straight smile and carry on, for you are a beautifully unique bright light.

Unstuck

Bonjour Friends, Why, so very often, when we feel hurt, (either because something happened or on the contrary did not), we end up stuck there for the longest time? 'The Ego voice within' which main function is to protect us from dangers/hurts tend to get loud and overbearing to make sure we will remember 'the pain' so we can be prepared for next time,( and obviously the more certain hurts keep showing up at our door, the more 'we live stuck in a defensive mode') Do you you get how sick this is? Do you see how difficult it could be to escape if we don't train our consciousness to see life from a different vintage point? Mindful living is a collection of teachings, tools & trainings to help us master 'The game of life' so we can play as our most empowered, aligned, inspired authentic self, no matter the amount of curved ball throw at us, to be fully present to the here & now. As we learn to recognize , learn and let go of 'The lessons', As we learn to forgive which doesn't mean to forget and voluntarily choose to move forward with an open heart/mind, we truly get to live! We are free to fulfill our potential and own the divine path through self actualization and walk strongly a step at a time toward enlightenment. My name is Ilanit Fridman, founder of IC by Ilanit by Ilanit, I am a Certified Life Coach (M.Ed), Writer & Speaker specialized in Mindful Living as well as a Yoga & Qigong instructor. Known for my warmth & extensive knowledge as well as my empathic & intuitive nature, I am here to help you live life as your most empowered, aligned & authentic self, all while navigating the ups & downs, twists & turns coming your way. Feel free to reach out to inquire how? And learn about my different services for the Body, Mind & Spirit (in person & online). Don't hesitate to Like & Share forward! Love & Light Always, Ilanit. 786-565-2772 www.ICbyIlanit.com C life through a mindful I

ICU

Bonjour Friends, Today's message came to me in the form of a conversation I was having with my 10 years old daughter which I found deeply relevant to (my) our spiritual work and felt inclined to share. As we were roaming through my phone last night, looking at pictures she stopped at this one and said: "I like this one! You look happy...I can tell when people are or aren't happy whether they smile or not!" And so could I since about her age, (which often caused the opening of a healing portal to help soothe their wounds and guide them back to their heart). In a world were apparences/ social media presence have become our business cards whether it is to sale something or not...Everyone is constantly preoccupied to put on a picture perfect no matter if it is a reflection of the truth or a lie. Personally, I don't like posing for picture, It makes me feel awkward, but I don't mind a candid shot especially taken by my kids when having some 'Good time". That being said, they're nothing wrong to try to honor the philosophy: "fake it till you make it!" or "Smile so life will smile at you back!" However, to not fall into the trap of believing our own lies, we should make sure to constantly check with ourselves, deal with our own shadows, emotions & traumas and connect to the light within, the place were our essence is naturally happy and that's the true no matter what! My name is Ilanit Fridman, founder of @IC by Ilanit, I am a Certified Life Coach (M.Ed), Writer & Speaker specialized in Mindful Living as well as a Yoga & Qigong instructor. Known for my warmth & extensive knowledge as well as my empathic & intuitive nature, I am here to help you live life as your most empowered, aligned & authentic self, all the while navigating the ups & downs, twists & turns coming your way. Feel free to reach out to inquire how? And learn about my different services for the Body, Mind & Spirit (in person & online). Don't hesitate to Like & Share forward! Love & Light Always, Ilanit. 786-565-2772 www.ICbyIlanit.com C life through a mindful I